Confession

 

Metropolitan Anthony (Krapovitsky)

 

A Series of Lectures on the Mystery of Repentance.

 

 

Content:  

Translator’s Introduction. 1. The Significance of Confession for Christians. 2. The Spiritual Father’s own Disposition. 3. The Influence of Confession. 4. The Outward Arrangement of Confession. 5. Spiritual Direction. 6. Spiritual Healing. Unbelief and Weak Faith. 7. Imaginary Doubts. 8. Fear of Admitting a Sin. 9. Self-Justification. 10. Spiritual Delusion (Prelest). 11. Sicknesses of the Will and Heart. Anger. 12. Pride and Vainglory. 13. The Seventh Commandment. 14. Drunkenness. 15. Despondency. 16. Envy. 17. Love of Money. 18. Particular (Individual) Sins. 19. Sins Against One’s Neighbour. 20. Sins Against God. 21. Sins Against one’s Own Soul. 22. Penances.

Appendix A. Extracts From the Order of Confession. Appendix B. Also From the Order of Confession. How Spiritual Fathers Should Dispose Those Confessing to Them. Appendix C. Brief Confession Before a Spiritual Father. Appendix D. Questions tor Penitents, According to the Ten Commandments.

 

Translator’s Introduction.

Metropolitan Anthony (1863-1936) is best known as the organizer and first primate of the Russian Orthodox Church Outside Russia. Even before the Russian revolution he was well known as a theologian and bishop. After being rector of the Moscow and Kazan Theological Academies, in 1900 he was consecrated Bishop of Ufa; in 1902 he was transferred to the Volynia diocese in the western Ukraine, and then in 1914 he was made Archbishop of Kharkov. In his theological writings he stressed primarily the moral implications of Christian doctrine. He fought against the influence of western scholasticism and stressed the need to turn to the Church Fathers for theological inspiration. As a bishop he also fought against all anti-canonical and un-Orthodox tendencies of Church life, in 1918 he was appointed Metropolitan of Kiev and Galich, and after the revolution, as the senior of the exiled bishops, he was chosen to head the Russian Church Abroad. He kept the exile Church on the path of strict Orthodoxy, both in refusing to accept Metropolitan Sergei’s declaration of loyalty to the atheistic Soviet state, and also in opposing all kinds of theological modernism. This modernism was the chief cause of the sad schisms which divided the exile Church and which grieved Metropolitan Anthony very deeply.

The keynote of Metropolitan Anthony’s personal life, as of his theology, was love. He unhesitatingly gave away his personal possessions and the income he received as a bishop. He was a spiritual abba of countless people, including almost a whole generation of monks and bishops. Many testify to his enormous spiritual experience, manifested in the guidance they received from him. Among these is Metropolitan Philaret, the present primate of the Russian Church Abroad. While he was a young priest monk in China he corresponded with Metropolitan Anthony and preserved as a precious treasure for many years the letters he received; he refers to Metropolitan Anthony as the "abba of all abbas." Vladika Anthony was also granted the gift of tears during prayer: it was said that all one had to do was look at him praying in church in order to he enflamed with prayer oneself.

The present work, Confession, is based on the lectures Vladika Anthony gave during his courses on pastoral theology, but it was actually written down in 1920, while he was temporarily confined in a Uniate monastery in western Russia, due to the circumstances of the Civil War. It is primarily a manual for priests, written to show them how to give spiritual advice and help during confession, and gives great insight into the various ways in which the passions afflict the human soul. It is precisely this struggle, and, with the help of God’s grace, gradual victory, which is, in the view of Vladika Anthony, the feature distinguishing Orthodoxy from all other religions — the very essence of Orthodoxy (see his "How does Orthodoxy differ from the Western Denominations?" in Orthodox Life, 1970, No. 2). Although it is addressed to priests, it is obviously of great value to all Orthodox Christians, who are engaged in this struggle (with the exception of chapters 2-5). There are already many books about spiritual life, such as the Philokalia and St. John Climacus's Ladder, but these often go over the heads of contemporary lay-people, as they are written primarily for monks, who are generally able to give more attention to their spiritual life. The special value of Metropolitan Anthony’s Confession is that it deals with such problems as are familiar to most contemporary Orthodox lay people, but which are not treated elsewhere. Although it was written over fifty years ago it is still remarkably relevant to modern life, although of course there are also new problems that have arisen in the last few decades and are not covered by it. There are some obvious anachronisms: in particular, his comments on Church life often do not apply today. Nevertheless, the perspicacious reader will easily be able to see the connection between some of the things he touches upon (such as the "mass delusion" movements in Chapter 10), and similar phenomena of contemporary life.

A feature that should he of special value to priests today is that Vladika Anthony is dealing chiefly with situations where the confessor has to elicit some remnant of conscience in someone who is little more than nominally Orthodox — this must be a very common situation today! Lay people reading Confession should be on their guard against a temptation to judge their confessor’s "technique." Also, after reading Vladika Anthony’s advice to show love and concern, to ask questions in a certain way, and so forth, priests should beware of trying to act the part of a "Russian Spiritual Father." When Confession was written, people were closer to the roots of an Orthodox culture — now it is so easy to be infected by the many pseudo-Orthodox tendencies that are prevalent in the ecclesiastical world today.

In Confession, Metropolitan Anthony often advises the reader to refer to other books, many of which are not available in English. In footnotes the translator has tried to indicate which of these can be found in English, and sonic source material is included in the appendices. However, in the face of this difficulty we should bear in mind Vladika Anthony’s own words (at the end of Chapter 5) that "the priest should he concerned not so much to have the printed material for guidance through confession in perfect readiness, as to immerse his attention in this field of spiritual pathology and therapy, which is revealed by the holy ascetics."

The footnotes were all written by the translator, with one exception: note 5 to Chapter 15, which was in the original text. The scriptural references that were in the original have been left in the body of the text, and some others have been added as footnotes. The Russian word "dukhovnik," which means "spiritual father," has been rendered sometimes as "spiritual father" and sometimes, for convenience, simply as "priest." In the Russian Church all priests have the right and duty to be spiritual fathers, hence the two terms coincide in meaning, whereas in the Greek Church only those priests who have been blessed for the task (pneumatikoi) have this right.

"Metropolitan Anthony had a deep knowledge of human souls. That is why his writings on pastoral theology are so striking. His book Confession can be compared only with St. Gregory the Great’s Pastoral Rule," writes Protopresbyter George Grabbe (in The Church and Her Teaching in Life, Vol. 2, Montreal, 1970, p. 113).

Chapter One

 

 

1. The Significance of Confession for Christians.

When I was teaching theology in two of the theological academies in Russia, my students always gathered with particular interest to hear the lectures on confession, of which I gave four or more each year. At that period, and also much later, after I had finished my academic career, people begged me to write these lectures down and then have them printed. But, since I had only the briefest summary of their contents with me and I have always been overburdened by work and people, I have not managed to start working until now. I have always had to write about many things, and the only free time I had was at night.

At present I am confined in a Uniate monastery and so I have ample time at my disposal. However, I am afraid that my work will suffer no little detriment from the fact that I have not even my very short (one might almost say, symbolic) summaries with me, and of course my memory cannot retain everything that I said in the academy auditoria nineteen years or more ago. But, putting aside all pretence at a complete exposition of the subject, I will share with the reader what the Lord helps me to remember.

In a certain sense, confession is a thing which should accompany all of a priest’s relationships with the faithful. When Christians refer to priests as spiritual fathers, they are acknowledging the fact that these people chosen by God have the right and obligation constantly to call their conscience to account and demand that their soul be opened to them. Of course, as life becomes more complicated and we become more worldly, as do our flock and our relationships with people, it is not possible in all circumstances to make use of this right — or rather, fulfill this duty — of our calling. But nevertheless, even poor Christians admit that essentially the matter should be otherwise. They will never be reconciled to regarding a priest in any other light than as a mediator between themselves and God, both in prayer and in the constant struggle between good and evil which is the lot of each person. This is why even in this age of universal cooling towards faith and salvation, there do exist priests and monks who always direct their thoughts and words as if they were talking to penitents at confession, no matter to whom they are talking or what they are talking about. There are not many of them now, but not long ago, within our memory, in piously disposed patriarchal village parishes and even sometimes among educated society, it was possible to meet pastors who were so disposed and so involved with people that their conversations with their flocks, at home or at gatherings or anywhere else, could hardly be distinguished at all from their conversation during confession: salvation of the soul, the will of God, the truth of God — this is what was always the subject of the intercourse between the pastor and his flock.

A higher example of such relationships is shown by monastery elders, to whom the brothers of the monastery and also Orthodox Christians from all parts of the world come to confess their thoughts and receive advice and guidance. The answers and counsel of the elder are accepted as the voice of God, and people consider going against them as a mortal sin, like the sin of Adam and Eve. Do not think that such a relationship, or something approaching it, with one’s flock and even with those coming to confession is something completely unattainable for an ordinary spiritual father: the majority of our priests themselves do not realize what a great spiritual force is in the hands of a faithful clergy. They are mostly brought up apart from the life of the laity and have been among members of the clergy from their childhood; they know them not so much as God’s ministers, but rather as their own fathers, relatives or superiors. Thus our priests and sons of the clerical class in general do not look upon confession with such secrecy, such trembling and such torture as do ordinary lay people, be they simple or educated. Here otherwise separated members of our flocks who have nothing in common come together as one, except of course those who have altogether ceased coming to confession and turned themselves away from the chalice of Christ.

Perhaps my brother pastors will say to me: "You are giving us Fr. Amvrossy of Optina and Fr. John of Kronstadt as examples. What is there in common between the piously disposed crowd sitting at their feet and my impatient flock, crowding round the confessional to the number of about 500 people, just so that they can burst in one by one, mutter a few times "Sinful, sinful" and then rush to get out of church?"

Admittedly there is not much in common here, but worse things can happen. In some very populous dioceses in the Eastern Ukraine priests hear 15-20 peoples’ confessions at once, and in Petrograd many fathers hear the confessions of everyone in the church at the same time. Then they offer those who also wish to speak to the priest separately the chance to do so, but very few people turn out to be such bold Christians and sometimes nobody does. Each one thinks — "There are 500 of us and if everyone goes to talk separately then we won’t be finished till morning."

This is a grievous phenomenon: I will say more -- it is horrifying. But I must mention one more which is even more horrifying, though for most people this will not be new information. At diocesan conferences after the first revolution of 1905, in several places the clergy resolved "to abolish private confession and replace it with general confession," i.e. simply abolish confession altogether. This amounts to abolishing the Orthodox Faith, since without confession the attitude towards religious life as a constant inner struggle is lost, and it is precisely this which distinguishes our faith from the Lutheran and Stundist heresies. Of course, these blasphemous resolutions were not an expression of the voice and desires of the whole clergy: the majority, I hope, were horrified when they found out about this insanity on the part of their brothers. But of course this majority will not dispute the fact that we perform confession ineffectively and in a disorderly manner, not according to the manner laid down by the Church and not in a pastoral spirit. The laity is more painfully aware of this, but on whom does it depend to arrange the matter differently? Who is chiefly to blame that it has fallen from its proper height? Of course it is us, the pastors. We were and are fully able to prevent the situation from deteriorating to such a degree; even now we can put it right, if only we desire and also strive to set to work — before all else, on our own selves. Of what should this task consist?

We have already said that clergymen do not fully realize how receptive lay people are to edifying advice when they stand before them during confession. In order to realize this clearly, let us consider the fact that the conversation which occurs at confession is an absolutely exceptional event in the life of the person confessing and of humanity in general. You see, whenever people have conversations outside confession, especially at the present time, their aim is to hide their imperfections and display their often non-existent merits. The majority of people consider their enemies to be those who have accused them of something and even those who have found out something bad about them. On the conscience of almost every person are deeds, words and thoughts which he would not admit to an acquaintance, even if threatened at the point of a knife; but the day and the hour for confession comes and he willingly expounds it all to his spiritual father. Admittedly, he will tell even his spiritual father only after a severe inner struggle, and in the confidence that the spiritual father will not repeat his confession to anyone. Perhaps he has avoided confession for several years just because he could not conquer his shame, his pride; but once he has come, he will crucify himself spiritually and recount his sin. Think on this, priest of God, and take pity on man and love him. A man is never so fine, so dear to God, as when he kills his pride before Him and before you. When only this chief enemy of our salvation, this enemy of God, pride, has been destroyed, the soul of the person confessing becomes open to receive the holiest thoughts, wishes, intentions and decisions. Blessed are you, spiritual father, if God tells you things that can help your spiritual child in the complete or gradual renunciation of his former sins. But "God helps the laborers and not the layabouts," says St. Tikhon of Zadonsk, and so you must set as the main task in your life obtaining experience in spiritual healing, that is, in giving Christians guidance and instruction in fighting with sin and strengthening themselves in virtue.

Alas, we must admit that in this matter our clergy are completely inexperienced. They have been taught everything at school except this most important wisdom, and only those pastors have it who have obtained it through their own labours, either through reading the writings of the Fathers and the Holy Bible, or through acquaintance with an experienced elder, or through prayer and their own experience of observing themselves and their flocks, but chiefly through their own moral struggle with sin.

We have already mentioned that a spiritual father, in order to acquire skill, must work before all else on himself; what is this work? Answer: you must come to love people, to love man at least in those minutes when he has given himself up to you, given himself up to God. You are hardly likely to meet him in any better state than he is during those minutes, and if you do not try to love him now, you will never come to love him in the conditions of ordinary life.

But how can one command one’s heart to have the appropriate feelings if it is cold? No, it cannot remain cold and unsympathetic if you take the trouble to realize what it is that you are performing and what is being performed around you; if you do not come to confession "incidentally," "by the way," if you tear your soul away from practical and family problems at that time. Look what an exceptional honour God has granted you, what a favour He sends you. You see, neither to his father nor mother, nor wife, nor friend, nor king will a Christian reveal those secrets of his soul which he now reveals to Cod and to you. And if a surgeon wields his knife with great care and fear, in order to perform his necessary but dangerous incisions into the human body, then, of course, you must tremble and pray many times more that you will heal, and not kill, the immortal soul.

 

 

2. The Spiritual Father’s own Disposition.

 

"If we had taken thought, we would not have been condemned," writes the Apostle. Three quarters or, perhaps, nine tenths of our sins, mistakes and even of our crimes occur because people do not want to stop and think before speaking or acting. Anyone who does not work on himself does not know what enormous significance for the soul and for living sensibly lies in cutting oneself off, if only for a moment, from the surrounding vanities and concentrating one's thoughts and conscience on what the Lord requires of one in given circumstances or at a given time.

And so, when you are about to hear peoples' confessions, and have invoked the help of divine grace, if you concentrate your thoughts on what you have read here — if you remember how you yourself came to confess your sins, how severe your own struggle with your passions and how lamentable your falls — then you have already done much good to your flock. There is no doubt that you will say compunctionate and soul-shaking words, if not to all of your spiritual children, then to many of them, words which you would not have said if you had not carried out this advice of mine, unsophisticated though it may seem. You will ask, "Can making such a small effort really bring about such great results as giving a moral shaking to several of my neighbors, for whom Christ was crucified; or even making them repent and change their whole lives? And all this now, when religion is universally despised and nobody even wants to respect bishops: how can I, an ordinary, insignificant priest, hope that my words will have such power?!"

Try it and see, is my answer, and do not be astonished. Is it difficult for a millionaire to make a whole village happy and rich by a single stroke of his pen on a bank cheque, or for a village elder to give out a hundred bushels of flour to the starving by giving a single brief command? But you are spiritually rich, very rich, even if you yourself are neither wise nor holy; you are rich not through your own spiritual strength, but through "the gift that is in thee, which was given thee by prophesy; with the laying on of hands of the presbytery" (1 Tim. 4:4). Your words are not powerful of themselves, but the soil, the earth on which your spiritual seed is falling, is fertile. This fertility has been cultivated by centuries of Church life; although Church life has been shaken in our days, it still bears in itself the traces or reflection of the countless spiritual feats, struggles and sufferings of the society that educated the Christian and his family, and also by his own efforts, even if not very constant, to overcome evil and implant good and faith in his heart. And now, in accordance with the Church’s teaching, he looks upon you as God’s herald, as a prophet, and he supplements the value of your words and thoughts from his own uplifted state and his faith, as if he were listening to the words of God. And this is almost how it really is. If you have taken this man’s grief and struggle upon yourself, if you have loved him and abased yourself before the Lord in your heart, and called in prayer on the help of His grace, then even though you be a sinful pastor, the words of the Lord will be fulfilled in you: "It is not ye that speak, but the Spirit of your Father which speaketh in you" (Mt. 10:20). This is not to be understood in the fully supernatural sense, that the priest receives each time a special revelation from God which by-passes his own head and heart; but in the sense that the grace of God, invoked in humble prayer by him who is accomplishing this great mystery, enlightens his soul with spiritual love and compassion towards those repenting, and then, as St. Tikhon of Zadonsk says, addressing himself even to zealous lay people, "love seeks out the words which can be of use to your neighbour and this does not require great learning — it requires only remembering (about God and one’s conscience)."

This is why we remain deeply convinced that the principal condition for fruitful spiritual direction consists in being convinced that it is not our wisdom that enlightens our spiritual children and strengthens them in good intentions, but the grace of God, enlightening their souls and your own soul, as you are an intermediary between them and God. If I could instill such a conviction and feeling into the- priestly reader, I would consider my guidance quite adequate and even finished, in view of the words of St. Tikhon which have just been cited. If we still continue our talk about confession and even touch on the question of its outward order, then this is primarily so that the priestly reader, after examining the matter in detail, should thus find an even stronger stimulus to fill his own soul with zeal to attain the spirit of faith, humility and compassionate, pastoral love towards penitents.

Nevertheless, it requires great persistence to convince spiritual fathers to embark on this inner struggle, and even so, unfortunately, they often remain unconvinced; for to the same degree that this ascetic task of being a spiritual father is great, holy and fruitful — to that same degree do evil temptations distract our souls from it. First we will consider those which come not from our evil will but from faintheartedness and inexperience. Here is the first thing that an inexperienced priest will tell you in reply to the idea that he can have a profound influence on the souls of penitents: "Half the people coming to confession are used to doing it as a burdensome and boring social convention; when social convention ceased to require this, especially since the time of the Revolution, the majority of them also ceased preparing for Communion, and of those who still carry out this custom, all hut a minority do it just out of habit. Saying words of love to them and giving them fiery exhortations is just the same as pouring water into a sieve." I do not agree with you, dear brother, but I will not argue with what you have said. Of course, it would be too bold to claim to convert to a life of virtue all those who receive the sacrament of confession from you. But read the Book of Acts. Did the preachers of conversion to God manage to make all the inhabitants of the towns they visited believers in Christ without exception? No, they concentrated their attention and feelings on the few who did believe and then imparted to them the word of God and also their own soul (1 Thess. 2:8). Of course, those who heard them were people of other faiths, not their flock, their spiritual children, as the Christians who come to you for confession are. But I would like to convince you that if you receive even a few humble sinners into your soul as a lather, exhort them with a voice of sympathy and love in the name of God and teach them to struggle spiritually, then even that will be a greater moral feat in the eyes of God and the Church than all the other things you do to serve Him. If you are the active secretary of a diocesan council, the manager of a candle factory or take part in the administration of a seminary, all these respected labors are worth nothing in comparison with returning even one soul from the path of perdition into the way of salvation. In theory of course you yourself agree with this; but unfortunately, with the majority of priests these worldly or semi-worldly matters take up much more, not only of their time, but also of their heartfelt concern and diligence than does caring for that which is dearer than the whole world — the human souls which have been entrusted to them.

You are afraid of being repulsed by the people you try to exhort? Begin with those from whom you can expect a different attitude; just begin — just work on yourself, as I have written here, and approach this mystery with good will and prayer. If only God would let you taste that spiritual sweetness with which you could repeat the words of the father in the Gospel: "For this my son was dead and is alive, was lost and is found" (Lk. 15:32). You will do just as much good to him spiritually as you are doing to yourself. Like a young woman who has given birth to her firstborn, you will find completely new feelings in your soul — feelings hitherto unknown to you and unseen by worldly people — abundant waves of the holy feelings of love, compassion for people, exultant glorification of the Savior, and hence boldness for the holy faith and readiness to bear everything for the truth of Christ. Then you will understand, even if you did not understand it before the day of your ordination, that a priest is not an ordinary Christian, not an ordinary person, but a co-participant in the redemptive feat of Christ, bearing in his own soul the multitude of souls that has been entrusted to him. Then you will understand that the grace of the priesthood which has been given to you is not just "the right to perform Church services," but a definite moral gift, a special virtue of spiritual love, of which St. John Chrysostom, defining the essence of the priesthood, says: "Spiritual love is not born of anything earthly; it proceeds from above, from Heaven, and is given in the mystery of the priesthood, but the assimilation and maintenance of this gift also depends on the strivings of the human spirit." I have quoted these words of this Church Father more than once in my writings, for they set a seal with great precision on everything that has been written above.

 

 

3. The Influence of Confession.

Here is a penitent, after humbly confessing his sins, listening to the gentle voice of his spiritual father, filled with love and reverence: "The Lord forgives those who repent; He is close to your soul and wishes you victory over your sin more than you do yourself, just as you wish your children to be strengthened in good more than they themselves do. When the struggle begins in your heart, remember that your Guardian Angel is following the vacillations of your soul with anxious grief; take pity on your own soul. You can see that even I am sad for you, and God loves us so many times more than we love each other. If you yourself do not repulse His help, He will not give you over into slavery to your former passions. Call upon Him in time of temptation, sign yourself with the sign of the Cross, turn your gaze away from the temptations, keep away from people who incline you towards evil or irritate you, and then you will be a victor over your invisible enemies." With words like these, gentle though they are, the spiritual father has already deeply moved the soul of the penitent, which was shaken even before that. Renewed in spirit he returns to his everyday occupations after communing the Holy Mysteries and his whole household notices that something special has happened to him, changing his disposition and, indeed, his life itself.

He himself will probably share with others the holy feelings which were wafted upon him by the pastor’s heartfelt exhortations. He will feel the most heartfelt gratitude and love towards the latter, and will begin to advise everyone to go to that priest for confession. Nevertheless, we are obliged to fulfill our duty irrespective of the success or failure of our exhortations, as the Lord said to the prophet Ezekiel (Ch. 2). But you have a blessing to succeed. When you have heard people’s confessions once or twice, or even just the confession of one person, new spiritual children will come to you one after the other. One will come to you at home and weep over his spiritual wounds, or ask consolation for the woes afflicting his soul; another will ask for confession in church, even outside the usual time. The news about the warm-hearted, loving and reverent pastor will rapidly spread, not only throughout the village but also through the local town, and may God grant that you manage to respond to all these entreaties for spiritual healing that are put before you.

"What? In our Bolshevik times, when zealous pastors are reviled, driven out and killed?" Even in our time murderers are murderers and atheists are atheists, but there are still incomparably more who believe and pray than there are atheists, and they will nestle close, probably more fervently than before, to the footstool of a pastor who treats their confession not as a sounding board but as a loving and compassionate father — a pastor such as we are all obliged to be who have received the grace of ordination and so should feel like St. John the Apostle: "There is no greater joy for me than to hear that my children are walking in the truth" (3 Jn. 4). Of course, the pastor will not be free from clashes with unworthy children, with sons of disobedience, even when performing the mystery of confession, but your soul should be filled with joy over the children of obedience, and repeat the words of the psalm (50), "I shall teach Thy ways to the lawless and the Godless shall return to Thee." You will not convert all the iniquitous, for even the blood of the Lord was shed "for many," and did not draw all to the Crucified One, and the Apostle Paul said, "I am made all things to all men that by all means I might save some" (1 Cor. 9:22). This is true, but even so the obstacles to your worthily fulfilling your vocation as a spiritual father are not in people, not outside you, but in you yourself — if you do not want to make a start with this holy work, as the Lord commands.

"Of course, you are right," many spiritual fathers will answer me. "Of course, if I were a saint, if I could irradiate my heart with such sympathy towards people and such faith. I could probably attain, with the assistance of God’s grace, everything that you are talking about. But we haven’t been taught that; my soul is callous, I can hardly ever pray with warmth and compunction, and to acquire such evangelical love for people from whom you constantly hear insults and offences — this is beyond my strength and I have never even thought that such a disposition was obligatory for me; nor do my brat her priests or relatives ever speak about that."

I expect answers like this from many sincere pastors — perhaps even from the majority — but their woe is not in this, nor is the woe of their flock. If you make such an admission in a spirit of self-reproach, if you say these words with a contrite heart, this is already victory (Mk. 9:24). The other possibility is terrible: it is terrible if you say such words with haughty contempt and mockery of man’s repentance, of your neighbour’s soul; if it is with humble grief over yourself, then "a broken and contrite heart God will not despise" (Ps. 50:19) and "the Lord is near to the contrite in heart and saves the humble in spirit" (Ps. 33:19). The more profoundly you become aware how far you are from that spirit of all-embracing love and compassion with which Christ’s pastor should be filled, the more you lament over your hard-heartedness, the nearer is God’s grace to you and the more accessible is your soul to radiant illumination. A thought will suggest words of despondency to you: "Well, how are you, an unfeeling, self-loving and irritable man, to take to heart the sins of others as if they were your own and crucify yourself before God together with all the people confessing, when you are weary with labouring at confession for a whole day? Just listen to the sin and read the absolution and it is quite all right if you do not do anything more." But you must rep1y to the thought, "Suppose that’s what I really am like, suppose I am not capable of taking the correct attitude to this high pastoral duty, and for the majority of my spiritual children turn out to he just a formal witness of their repentance. Even so I will do as much as I am able, that is, as much as the Lord helps me to do. And now I am going to begin by humbly entreating Him to bring me to my senses and teach me to soften my heart and bestow upon me the spirit of compassionate love and guiding wisdom, in order to teach my spiritual children how to struggle with sin. In addition to that I will try in good time also to organize the outward arrangements for confession so as to be able to give as much time as possible to each of the faithful; and I myself will learn from the Holy Fathers about guiding the human soul in its struggle between good and evil."

If you made a firm resolution like this, then sooner or later you will become an excellent spiritual physician for the faithful. Only hold to this resolution and do not give in to despondency when impatience, irritability and tiredness rise up in your soul and begin tempting you against God’s work. If at first you speak sincerely, in a fatherly and brotherly way, with even a few out of many, and then offer to God sincere repentance that you were not a spiritual father for all of them; then you will come to the next confession already more mature spiritually, with a more softened soul, with clearer faith in the grace-given strength of God, and thus you yourself will gradually grow into a perfect man, and your spiritual children into the fullness of the stature of Christ.

 

 

 

4. The Outward Arrangement of Confession.

It is difficult to arrange confession any better than it is now in the majority of Orthodox parishes — where four or six hundred persons’ confessions have to be heard in one day, and confession takes place only during five or eight days out of the whole year.1

Spiritual fathers will confirm this and say, "It certainly is difficult: indeed, it is quite impossible. In the first year of my service as a priest I tried to increase the number of days for confession, but my parishioners just didn’t take any notice." I am ready to believe you, dear brother: the customs of village life are very tenacious and the peasant is bound in his way of life by a multitude of things in his life as a farmer and as a family man. He and his family will not change these if the new batiushka2 limits himself to making an announcement at the beginning of the period of preparation for Communion that those who wish to take Communion may come to confession both on Tuesday and on Wednesday. The exhortation of your parishioners to come to confession not only on the four or seven Fridays of the Great Lent and on the eve of the Annunciation should not be left till four days before the actual confession. No, start as early as the Feast of the Nativity of the Saviour to tell your parishioners what significance an unhurried confession of their sins and a talk of ten or even five minutes with their spiritual father have for the soul. Explain in advance that there is no necessity whatever of going to confession on the eve of Communion or of taking Communion unfailingly on a Saturday. Read to them from the Lenten Triodion that, "Those who are overburdened with work take Communion during Lent at any Presanctified Liturgy and on Sundays." If not many people take advantage of that which you have explained to them during the first Lent, then later those who came to confession not on Friday, but earlier, will tell the others how compunctionate it was to reveal their soul before their spiritual father, how "It was just as if batiushka had taken a heavy weight off my shoulders, and taught me how to get away from sin." The following year, or even at the next fast — i.e., St. Peter’s fast or before Dormition, many others will follow the example of these Christians. And now that people have recognized you as an experienced and edifying spiritual father, you will acquire in their eyes the right to assign days and times for confession according to your own discretion, provided only that you announce them well in advance and then appear punctually at the appointed days and times to hear confessions.

Each time you must precede confession with a detailed and inspiring sermon, or even more than one. In the first one, exhort people to sincere repentance before God and to a sincere confession of sins before their spiritual father. In the second one, which you will deliver at the reading of the prayers of the rite of confession, recall what penances were prescribed by the Church at the Ecumenical Councils and read out several of them from the Trebnik (for fornication seven years exclusion from Communion, for adultery, fifteen years, for not keeping the fasts, two years). Then read the words of the Nomocanons3 in the Trebnik4 by which it is permitted to reduce the penances on account of tearful repentance, fasting, almsgiving or tonsure into the monastic order, and explain that without these conditions — i.e., without great contrition of heart and ascetic struggles — the sins of perhaps the majority of those standing before you would prevent them being allowed to take Communion. If contemporary pastors dare to take upon themselves the responsibility before God of admitting them to Communion, then it is in view of the general corruption of Christian morals and the Christian way of life, which has made the struggle with sin incomparably harder for the sons of the Church than t was before, when there was a general zeal for salvation, when people stimulated each other to moral struggles and were ashamed of their sins before each other. Now society’s attitude to sins and virtues is exactly the opposite, and so it is already necessary somewhat to soften the requirements of the book of penances, but only within certain limits, lest the priest should also burn in the same flames as the sinners he had unlawfully admitted to Communion, as is said in rule 183 of the Nomocanon. In general, read without fail in this sermon the words under the headings "He says to him…" and "Pay attention also to this…" (three paragraphs), which are in the chapter "Exhortation from a Spiritual Father to his Spiritual Child"; at this point also read without fail the concluding instruction under the heading "How Spiritual Fathers Should Dispose those Confessing to them," which is based on the rules of the First and other Ecumenical Councils and on the seventy–fifth chapter of Matthew Vlastaris5. Then, in order to avoid misunderstandings, remind those standing before you of the self-evident truth, that, even if a priest has the great daring to admit great sinners to Communion when they have offered sincere repentance. he still has absolutely no right to do the same for those Christians who do not admit some notorious sin of theirs to be sinful, or even admit that it is sinful hut do not express any determination to stop it, desiring to continue in their sinful state — for example, of illicit cohabitation. Absolution of sins and communion of the Holy Mysteries have sense only on condition of a resolution to get out of one’s criminal, sinful state and correct one’s life. Without this condition, Communion will only be a new and serious sin, both for the sinner who does not wish to correct himself, and for the priest who has admitted him to Communion. Therefore, those who continue in illicit cohabitation, or a so-called civil marriage, should not be admitted to Communion until they have separated from their concubines, realizing that this is what they are.

Try to give Christians Communion not only in the Great Lent, hut also in the others, and in the Great Lent, not only on Saturdays, but also on Wednesdays, Fridays and Sundays, and on the Annunciation and on Polyeleos days6 when the Presanctified is appointed. Either do it this way, or else persuade them to confess not only on the eve of Communion but also on the preceding days. Then at confession your heart will not have that uneasy feeling: "however shall I manage to dismiss before nightfall all the four hundred people who have come to confession?"

Also try to ensure that the person coming to confession unfailingly hears the confession prayers and the exhortation printed in the Trebnik: "Behold, child, Christ stands invisibly before you…."7 Of course, all this should really be re-read to each person who comes, but since it is impossible to do this, these prayers should be read after the service for all those who are preparing for confession, and since not all those corming to confession are in church by then, these prayers should be repeated several times as new groups of people enter the church during the course of the whole day. Further, if a whole crowd of people is waiting in line for several hours in the church or near the church, it is profitable for some respected parishioners or seminarians to take turns reading either patristic counsels from the Synaxarion, or lives of saints deliberately chosen beforehand, or — and this is especially profitable — the Sermon by St. Cyril of Alexandria on Death and the Dread Judgement, which is in the combined Psalter and Book of Hours8. When this sermon is read during the blessing of many people after vespers on Forgiveness Day9 (which lasts about two hours), a large number of the people do not leave church even after the blessing, but listen with tears to the awesome words of the saint. With such compunction Christians also listen to the life of St Mary of Egypt on the eve of the Thursday of the fifth week of Lent. These things should unfailingly he read in Slavonic and in a somewhat singing tone, so that the listeners can make out the words.

The great number of people confessing does not make it possible to read the preliminary confession prayers for each of them individually, but unfailingly read over each of them the most important prayer "Lord God, the salvation of Thy servants...," and stop thinking that the essential prayer of the mystery — which is the only one read by virtually the majority of priests — is the following: "The Lord and God Jesus Christ."10 This prayer was introduced into our order of confession quite recently, less than three hundred years ago; neither the Creeks nor the Edinovertsi11 have it, but it came to us from the Roman Catholics. Of course, now it should be read also, but even more so must that prayer which the Universal Church of Christ established from patristic or even apostolic times be repeated over each person.

Besides this, explain to people on each confession day that they must unfailingly read or reverently listen to the entire rule of Prayers before Holy Communion,12 and afterwards all of the Prayers of Thanksgiving, without which Communion will be unto judgment and condemnation, as it was for Judas. Do not expound these thoughts as if they were your own, but read them from the "Instructive Notice" in the combined Psalter and Book of Hours, and from St. Simeon the New Theologian on tears during Communion.13

 

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1 In pre-revolutionary Russia most lay-people received Communion very infre-quently, usually only once a year, it was customary to commune on one of the Saturdays of Great Lent after preparing oneself by attending the special Lenten services during the preceding week. Thus on a few days of the year priests would be overburdened with confessions and unable to give each person sufficient attention. In most Russian churches of the emigration people usually receive Communion more often and as the parishes are not so large, this problem is not so acute but it persists to some extent, especially in large parishes during Holy Week.

 

2 Batiushka: a Russian term of endearment and respect for priests; it is a diminutive of "father."

 

3 Nomocanon: a collection of canon laws arranged according to subject matter. This is not available in English translation — the English "Rudder" ("Pedalion") contains the canons grouped according to the councils and -fathers who decreed them.

 

4 Trebnik (Book of Needs, Euchologion) a book containing services performed according to the needs of individuals (e.g., Baptism, Marriage, Confession, Memorial Services). Many of these services, including the full Rite of Confession, may be found in "The Service Book" translated by I. Hapgood. Since, however, it docs not contain the references to the canons to which Metropolitan Anthony refers in his text, we have translated them and included them as Appendix B of this book.

 

5 See Appendix B.

 

6 i.e. great saints’ days. Those occurring during Lent are the Feasts of the First and Second Findings of the Head of St. John the Baptist, February 24, and the feast of Forty Martyrs of Sobastia in Armenia, March 9.

 

7 See Appendix A.

 

8 This sermon may be found (abridged) in "Eternal Mysteries Beyond the Grave," Jordanville, 1968, pp. 62-63.

 

9 Forgiveness Day, or Cheese-fare Sunday, is the day before Great Lent begins. After vespers on this day Orthodox Christians prostrate before each other in church and ask mutual forgiveness before embarking on the spiritual struggles of the approaching fast. First each person asks forgiveness of the priest who also asks forgiveness and blesses each person in turn. In a large parish this can take several hours.

 

10 See Appendix A. The second prayer contains the expression, "I, His unworthy priest ... do forgive and absolve," which is foreign to the Orthodox approach to confession, in which it is God Who forgives, and not the priest.

 

11 Edinovertsi: Old Believers who have re-united with the Orthodox Church but have been allowed to retain their old (pre-Nikonian) ritual. In the opinion of Metropolitan Anthony and others this ritual was in some points purer than that of the Orthodox Church as it had not been subject to western influence. Of course, this correctness in outward matters was of no benefit to them so long as they cut themselves off from the Church — "straining at a gnat but swallowing a camel," in the words of our Savior.

 

12 The Russian Church requires her faithful to say three canons and one akathist, in addition to the Prayers Before and After Communion; all of these may be found in the English "Prayer Book" (Jordanville 1960). Other Orthodox Churches such as the Greek Church do not have a single rule for everyone, but leave it to the discretion of the individual and his spiritual father.

 

13 These are net available in English. Something similar could he read from the Prayer Book (p. 370): "Those who are preparing for Holy Communion…."

 

 

5. Spiritual Direction.

In a few words we have given directions about how a spiritual father should establish in penitents that disposition of soul — a disposition of repentance, faith and hope — with which confession becomes fruitful. But this is not enough. When they have noticed that the priest has pain in his heart for his children, the latter will also persistently expect from him guidance and directions for the correction of their life. In general this is the first demand of an awakened conscience. The Jews asked St. John the Baptist what they had to do in order to enter the Kingdom of Cod; both the rich youth and "a certain lawyer" asked about the same thing, about eternal life, when they drew near to Jesus, as did the three thousand witnesses of the descent of the Holy Spirit on the Apostles.

Russian people do not go to monastery elders for any other reason than to ask them directions on the path into the Kingdom of Heaven. When they met Fr. John of Kronstadt in railway stations, in church, in the street, they seized him by the cassock with the plea: "Batiushka, teach me not to swear, teach me not to quarrel with my wife; tell me if I should go to a monastery or get married*. It is difficult even for an experienced spiritual father to give intelligent answers to such unexpected questions amid a crowd of jostling people; but our spiritual fathers experience even greater difficulty at confession, even if it is unhurried. This is because most of them do not have spiritual experience, and have not endeavoured to borrow it from the Holy Fathers. At theological school the usual lay teacher could not teach them to do this, preferring to be not a servant of the Church, but a Titular Councilor, and thinking only of how to transfer from pastoral theology — a subject hateful to him since childhood — to civil history or at least to the Latin language.

What then should I read in order to acquire spiritual wisdom? Read much, but know that the principal means of learning are attention to oneself, checking on the life of one’s own soul, reverent prayer and observation, compassionate and full of love, of the souls surrounding you, of your flock, your family and your acquaintances.

But what should you read? First of all, read the Bible, concurrently from 1) Pentateuch and Kings, 2) from the Prophets and Wisdom Books and 3) from the New Testament. Read every day, for at least half an hour. If you make yourself read through the Bible twice in this way, then subsequently you will reread it at your own desire and inclination. Anyone who has read the Holy Bible three times cannot help becoming a religious philosopher and moralist.

However, this is important principally for the priest*s general spiritual development; there also exist patristic works directly relating to the guidance of penitents. But before you begin reading them I advise you to master the key to the understanding of spiritual life, i.e. to read the book The Path to Salvation by Bishop Theophan the Recluse (d. 1894), with attention and, I think, not just once; then start reading the Synaxarion. But do not read it in order in which it is written; if you will soon have to start hearing confessions, look in the table of contents and find articles which relate to human weaknesses and passions and teach how to struggle with them; such articles are listed at the end of the Synaxarion.

I am pointing out the primary importance of the Synaxarion for counseling penitents firstly, because most churches have this book, except for those built recently, but chiefly because this book, as well as the Limonarion of Sophronius of Jerusalem, or the Spiritual Meadow by? John Moschus, or similar collections of the "memorable sayings about the holy fathers," expounds the rules of piety in parables, as did the Savior, or in events from the lives of righteous men, which are more easily assimilated than direct advice, and are remembered longer, on the most part, for one’s whole life. I will give just one example. A monk who had long been fighting against temptations with terrible struggles became faint in spirit and started praying to God to lighten the cross which had been placed on him in life: "Is it really impossible for me to reach the Heavenly Kingdom and spiritual perfection with a less painful cross?" An Angel appeared and led him into a spacious upper room, on the walls of which hung many varied crosses: heavy? iron ones and lighter wooden ones; among both the former and the latter were some very? large crosses, some smaller and some very small. "The Lord has heard your prayer," said the Angel, "and permitted you to choose a cross for yourself."

"Do you suppose God will forgive me’, said the hermit, that I, after struggling for many years, am now taking for myself this, the smallest of the little wooden crosses?’’

Then the Angel said to him, ‘‘This is the very cross you have been hearing up to this day and which you considered too exhausting; all the other crosses are incomparably heavier." Then the monk understood his foolishness and offered repentance, realizing that the Lord never lays on people a burden beyond their strength; but a Christian must accept it submissively and pray for the help of divine grace.

If a priest assimilates the contents of similar stories in the Synaxarion and continuously reads at least this and a few other simple books, then he will learn quite thoroughly to guide Christians in their struggle with sins and passions. But there is a whole library of such spiritual cures. Such primarily is the collection of patristic writings in five volumes called the Philokalia, collected by the same Bishop Theophan the Recluse. The volumes of this can be obtained separately, and especially useful are the first two, in which the writings of the greatest ascetics are collected: Anthony, Pachomius, Isaiah and so on. One of the most highly developed themes in the fathers is the teaching about the eight chief passions of the human heart and struggling with them. If you cannot now obtain the Philokalia, those same fathers can be bought separately. Especially useful is the book of Sts. Barsanuphius and John, containing the "Answers" to the monks’ questions on matters of piety, and also the Ladder, by St. John, abbot of Mount Sinai, in which there is a special word or "epistle" "To Pastors."

Among more contemporary works there is "Advice to the Priest on Performing the Mystery of Confession" by Archbishop Platon of Kostroma, written sixty years ago, hut this advice is somewhat formal and scholastic. More practical are the exemplary "Questions to Penitents" by Metropolitan Jonah, Exarch of Georgia, which many spiritual fathers in monasteries had in manuscript, and it is unlikely that they remained unpublished.

However, the priest should be concerned not so much with having the printed material for guidance through confession in perfect readiness, as with immersing his attention in this field of spiritual pathology and therapy, which is revealed by the holy ascetics. Then he will add to it his own independent activity, wiIl make use of the Fathers’ experience consciously and adapt it to those states of soul which his parishioners will reveal to him at confession and in general in spiritual talks.

 

 

6. Spiritual Healing. Unbelief and Weak Faith.

 

In our academy lectures on pastoral theology, we gave instructions about how to give edifying advice at confession to people with various dispositions and from various walks of life. Of course, even then we could make no claim to enumerate all the varied conditions of inner life and external situations of Christians, conditions which are endlessly variable. Here, where we are living at present, far from the short summaries which we made for delivering the lectures, we can manage only to set forth what little we remember of what we borrowed from the writings of the Fathers and from our own spiritual experience.

To begin with, let us consider the most acute cases. The person confessing declares that he does not believe. Nowadays such a person would probably not even come to confession, but then (I was teaching until the last years of the 19th century, until the spring of 1900), he would explain that he came because of the requirement of civil law for officers and civil servants, or the requirements of a school for its pupils, or finally, at the insistence of his parents or wife, or in order to observe family customs. But I am still convinced that at the present time of triumphant nihilism such people must appear not infrequently at the confessional. First of all, one must ask if they seriously and sincerely want to talk to the priest, or if they have only come to make mock of him; in the latter event they should simply he sent away. It is essential that your question be affectionate and full of sympathy. If he answers that he would like to be convinced of the truths of faith, or at least re-examine his convictions, then of course it is better to offer to have a preliminary talk with him in another place before confession, especially if he is an adult and an educated person. If you notice that his unbelief is only imaginary or passing, and feel that he can be brought to his senses in a few minutes, then ask him why he lost his faith. Was it from reading books, and if so, which ones? Or from various soul-shaking events — disillusionment, misfortune, prayers unanswered by God (this happens especially often with women) or for other reasons? If he names Tolstoy or Renan or other writers as being responsible for his loss of faith, then say "Of course, these books strive to kill faith in people, but it cannot be that they are a sufficient reason for you not to believe. You probably did not take the trouble to read a single book in defence of the faith, or even one book devoted to refuting the thinkers you mentioned. Admit that you started reading these hooks with a desire to be delivered from faith; and if this is not so, then still, before reading them you must have found religion burdensome, since if this were not so you would not have come to part with it so easily, but, sick at heart, you would have sought a person or another book which could have dispersed your doubts. On the contrary, did you not seek out those books and companions who could destroy even what remained of your faith? Why did you begin to find it burdensome, and when? Wasn’t it when you lost your chastity or wished to lose it, but faith and your conscience prevented you, and you began to hate them just as a mischievous schoolboy hates the person in authority over him? It is not reason, but unchastity which is the enemy of faith, as the Lord said: ‘Whoever shall be ashamed of Me and My words in this adulterous and sinful generation,’ and so on (Mk. 9:38). He did not say: ‘in this lazy or self-interested generation,’ but ‘adulterous generation,’ for He knew where and whence enmity against God begins. Many people have read your Tolstoy and Renan and not lost their faith, and others have compiled detailed refutations, both of these writers and of Darwin, Marx and so on. I will give you the refutations I know, and those which I do not know I will find out for you from people who do, if you really want to study these questions deeply, and are not simply covering up your immorality by naming books and philosophers.

"Thus you have admitted that it was not a book, but your evil will which took you away from God. Repent before Him, but if you are very far from Him, then admit to yourself your heavy guilt against truth and your conscience, and then you will receive the desire to ask God for the remission of your sin, your renunciation of your Redeemer. If you are already full of such repentant feelings, then let us pray; I will say the prayer of absolution over you. But as to approaching the Holy Mysteries, think about it first. If the Lord returns faith and hope to your heart, then receive Communion; but if the spirit of unbelief remains in your heart, then wait a while: but do not put off thinking about and investigating this, which is the most important thing on earth, and which is all that remains when we part from the earth. You said that you accept only facts, but death is an indubitable fact. Tell me, is there any sense in our life, if it comes to an end here just as the soul has been brought to fulfillment by maturity and thirst for understanding? Is there any sense in all that is good and great, if there is no God? For then, you see, there is no difference left between good and evil; all those who deny God have been compelled to admit this, the latest of them being the famous Spencer. Believe me, no sincere and thoughtful person can deny God and accept these conclusions about good and evil and the senselessness of life; when people talk of denying Him, they are just boasting and wanting to escape their pangs of conscience."

A man can be brought to his senses by such words, or similar ones, provided they come from heartfelt sympathy and compassion, and often such a person who imagined he was an atheist will there and then admit how grievously he was in error and ask for absolution. But if this does not happen straightaway, even so he will bow his head and become thoughtful, and will not refuse to continue his talk with the priest outside the church, or go to see someone who in your opinion can disperse his doubts. Of course, I am far from thinking that such a talk can bring about a conversion in the soul of every person who declares that he does not believe. It is necessary to speak to one person one way and to another person, differently. But I am giving an example of how the voice of pastoral love and the conditions of confession enable you to talk about faith and unbelief on a completely different plane from the usual one; usually people start talking about a book or attack, perhaps correctly, the unbelieving author named by the person they are talking to. The latter then starts employing subtle arguments to defend his teacher. But here you are calling upon the person to place himself under judgement and admit those sinful desires which drew his attention and sympathy to the enemies of God, and so tore him away from God.

If the unbeliever to whom you are speaking is stubborn and does not yield or even becomes angry and starts quarreling, however gentle you are, then still do all you can to ensure that he does not consider this talk as final, but remains willing to come and see you again or to go to some other better informed teacher to whom you can direct him. You know, in one of Gogol’s fantasies, the soul of a sleeping girl is separated from her and says, I think to some magician or other, "Marusya" (I probably have the name wrong) "doesn’t know a tenth of what her soul knows." If someone who considers himself an unbeliever has come to a priest, that means that in his soul, unknown to himself, there remains a considerable desire to get his faith back, although he also has the opposing desire to avoid it. Keep your pastoral eye on such a person and know that the more sharply and angrily he speaks to you, the more strongly his soul is struggling within him, his conscience struggling with the demon of unbelief and opposition to God. Unbelievers are converted to living faith in various ways, but rarely as the fruit of a gradual refutation of all the pseudo-scientific arguments against the existence of God or the immortality of the soul which they had accepted. Usually, after an inner struggle, at once both intellectual and moral, the turning point conies suddenly, and the person is no longer even interested in refuting his former arguments, but discards these theories as useless husks, as empty sophisms. It becomes clear that they only propped up his unbelief, which came from embitterment or insubmissiveness. Now, softened by a word of pastoral love, the soul has itself found a way out of its gloomy dungeon into the light, and soared to God in prayer. Of course, it would do no harm if the penitent thoroughly studied everything that has been said or written for and against his former atheistic ideas. But only a few will agree to this — they more readily start carefully reading the word of God, listening attentively to the Church prayers and devoting themselves to works of love. O, how blessed you are, minister of God, if you have found the key that enables you to enter into the soul and heart of such a person and open up for him a truthful outlook on himself. This is what the Lord brought about in the soul of Zaccheus, who himself understood what was necessary for him to begin living in God: "Behold, the half of my goods I give to the poor, and if I have taken any thing from any man by false accusation, I restore him fourfold’’ (Lk. 19:8).

It is considerably easier for a priest to overcome partial unbelief, or weak faith, on the part of a penitent. Many people confess that they cannot convince themselves that Holy Communion is really the Body and Blood of Christ, or of various miracles performed by the saints, of the necessity of the fasts, of the existence of the devil, and so on. This sort of unbelief is nearly always based on thoughtlessness and the habit of credulously repeating things that are constantly to be heard in the worldly conversations of stupid people. The priest should ask the doubtful person what he does believe in particularly strongly: in the Gospel? In the words of Christ? — Yes! — and all these questions which he finds doubtful have been clearly and definitely answered by the Saviour Himself, in words which he has either forgotten, or to which he has never paid attention. "Either deny belief in God Himself, the Lord Jesus Christ and His words, or believe as He taught us. No kind of geography or ethnography or zoology can tell you whether the devil exists or not; lead a religious life and you will find out for yourself the difference between temptations from the devil and those from your own evil will, and until you believe your Saviour, do not believe those deceivers and idiots either, who assert that those possessed by demons were just epileptics: did the Lord drive epilepsy into a herd of pigs? Did He not distinguish demonic temptations from those temptations due to faint-heartedness and passions, as in the parable of the sower?"

About the fasts, are not these His words?: "But thou, when thou fastest, anoint thine bead, and wash thy face; that thou appear not unto men to fast, but unto thy Father which is in secret: and thy Father Which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly" (Mt. 6:17-18); "They will fast when the bridegroom is taken away from them"; "This kind are not expelled except by prayer and fasting." Besides this, without fail direct the doubting person’s attention to the words spoken by Christ in His parting talk with His disciples after the Mystic Supper: "He that believeth on Me, the works that I do he shall do also; and greater works than these shall he do, because I go unto My Father" (In. 14:12). If you believe in Christ’s miracles, and do not consider Him a dishonorable fraud, then you must also believe these words of His, which He confirmed before His Ascension: "These signs shall follow them that believe . . ." (Mk. 16:17), and so on. The irrational Protestants believe in the miracles performed by the Apostles which are reported in the hook of Acts, hut they do not believe in those which are set forth in their "Lives." Why? Was one of Christ’s promises not to be fulfilled? "If they drink any deadly thing, it shall not hurt them" (Mk. 16:18). You see, there is no information about any such miracle in Holy Scripture, but there is in the life of the Apostle John (the Theologian). A vain attempt was made to put him to death by poisoning, but the poison did not harm the Apostle in the least. To those in doubt about the reality of Communion, repeat not only Christ’s words at the Mystic Supper, but also His words about the bread which comes down from Heaven (Jn. 6), which they probably do not know. Besides this, obtain and give to people to read the short but very convincing pamphlet by St. Dimitry of Rostov, "To Those in Doubt about the Reality of the Transformation of Bread and Wine into the Body and Blood of Christ." Here the usual doubts about the Holy Mysteries are dispersed remarkably simply and clearly.

 

 

7. Imaginary Doubts.

 

There are other articles of faith which some people cannot accept without difficulty; it is impossible to enumerate them all, but we hope that from these four examples a zealous spiritual father will learn how to struggle with all such doubts experienced by Christians.

It is yet more essential for him to distinguish unbelief, or doubts that really spring from unbelief, from imaginary or apparent doubts, which often severely oppress inexperienced Christians and put them in a situation where they are helpless. Many a faithful and prayerful Christian laments to his spiritual father, "At times I believe in Communion, at times I believe in God, but at times it is as if I don’t believe at all." I had answers to lamentations like this printed in the last, or next to the last number of the "Parish Bulletin," published by the Holy Synod in February, 1917, and then in the fourth supplementary volume of my writings (Kiev, 1918), in the "Letter to a Priest about Learning to Pray." Such thoughts of unbelief arise in the souls of suspicious people who love to examine all their thoughts and feelings minutely, and are filled with a constant futile fear that they will do something wrong or be found to have neglected something. Then it seems to them that they are ill, or that their child is getting ill, or is just about to get ill, or something similar. Not infrequently they fall into yet greater woes, into so-called "blasphemous thoughts," when abusive words come into their heads, completely against their will, together with thoughts of the name of Christ or the Mother of God. And of course, the more they fight against these absurd combinations, the more persistently they come crowding into their heads. Inexperienced people begin in horror to think that they are blasphemers, and inexperienced priests start talking to them about the serious sin of blasphemy, about blasphemy against the Holy Spirit as the greatest of all sins. After this these poor souls immediately start to experience an influx of abusive expressions about the Holy Spirit, are tormented, waste away and even consider suicide, thinking that they have already perished eternally anyhow. And the priest will not be able to help those tormented by these thoughts until they meet a man more informed about spiritual life, who will explain to them that the best medicine can be obtained at any theological book shop and is not expensive; it is another pamphlet by St. Dimitry, entitled "About Blasphemous Thoughts." Here it is explained in the words of the great Fathers of antiquity that such thoughts are not the fruit of hatred towards God and the saints, but simply combinations of abusive words or sounds in the head of an imaginative person, and so they do not in any way constitute a sin. One should not pay any attention to them, but calmly pray and receive Communion, no matter how stupid the words or images that may be crowding into one’s head.

An apparent lack of faith in Holy Communion, or even in God Himself, that comes from time to time, has a similar significance. Faith is a very subtle, spiritual, feeling. However much it may be present in us, if we fumble to find it in ourselves, as if taking account of all the qualities of our feeling towards God or the Mother of God and the other saints, then we find that this feeling has, as it were, evaporated for a time from the realm of our direct awareness, but not, of course, from our soul and heart. But experiment with one of the crudest feelings in the same way: pinch your hand until it hurts and then start to analyze how this pain differs from a toothache or a headache — and you will even stop feeling your pain. One German philosopher, suffering torments from the onset of a toothache, managed to stop feeling it in just this way. Thus, if he is not convinced of any definite refutations of the truths of faith, a Christian must not think that he has no faith, although at times this may seem to be so. He must calmly pray and approach the Holy Mysteries, not attaching any significance to his imagination, which only gets stronger if he deliberately fights against it.

 

 

8. Fear of Admitting a Sin.

 

Several spiritual fathers in monasteries have disclosed to me that God has helped them obtain from penitents the admission of sins which they could not bring themselves to confess at previous confessions over the course of ten or twenty years. This had tormented them for their whole lives and they already considered themselves doomed for eternity, knowing that the Church says, "If thou hidest anything from me, thou hast a greater sin; take heed therefore, lest, having come to a physician, thou depart unhealed." These sins may be very shameful and impure, unnatural sins against the seventh commandment, such as incest, bestiality or corruption of children; all these happen extremely often, and sometimes with people who are respected by those around them. On the other hand, they may be criminal offences: murder, infanticide, theft, robbery, attempted poisoning, malicious slander out of jealousy or envy, inspiring hatred against one’s neighbor, incitement of others against the Church and faith, and so on. If the priest directly poses a question about such a sin, the penitent will probably not deny it, but he cannot bring himself to tell of his offence voluntarily.

However, it is impossible to question each person about such abominable sins. After finishing the usual questions, you should ask in a quiet, gentle voice, "Perhaps there is some sin which you are ashamed to confess? Perhaps there is something which you could not resolve to say about your sins at earlier confessions, or forgot, and then remembered and did not dare to tell the priest?" It is extremely possible that the parishioner will answer affirmatively, but will still hesitate to say what exactly it was. Sometimes at this moment, people (especially women) start to weep and tremble, they become covered in sweat, but cannot resolve to speak. Then show even greater sympathy and affection and say, "Put aside your shame so that you will not be ashamed at the Dread judgement before everyone. Here, apart from me and the angels, nobody will know anything, and you will not shock your brother the priest by your sin; in a single day we have heard such things that nothing can astonish us any more." If the person confessing still cannot bring himself to say directly what it was, then say to him, "Well, perhaps it will be easier for you to confess if I ask you questions according to the commandments: does your sin concern the seventh commandment against pleasures of the flesh? Or stealing or doing evil to people? Or blaspheming?," and so on. When you are given an answer about the type of sin, then ask what sin it was exactly and enumerate the possibilities. Simple people sometimes cannot even give a name to their sin; then ask descriptively. When the penitent, realizing that you are not fiercely trying to condemn him, but are a friend, suffering with him, finally tells about his offense, do not be horrified or angry, for he has already reproached himself enough. Only lament, asking why he had not spoken of this before, why he had hidden it at his previous confessions: indeed, he could have died without admitting it and his soul have perished forever. Those who lie at confession usually end their earthly life by suicide. Let the sinner consider God’s mercy towards him, in that He did not deprive him of the possibility of confessing his sin.

Then tell him what penance, and how long an exclusion from the Holy Mysteries is prescribed for this by the canons. But if you see that he is deeply penitent and if the sin was committed long ago, then consider whether you should not let him receive Communion the next day, and demand that he make good the consequences of his sin, either immediately or over the course of time. If he took something unlawfully, he should return it, if he has dishonoured someone, he should make amends, or ask forgiveness; if he has begotten illegitimate children, he should support them, and so on. Then, if he is deeply moved and clearly wishes to free his conscience from the sin, give him a penance. But first ask him if he prays at all or comes to church. If he does neither one nor the other, then of course there will be no sense laying fasts upon him, but give him as a penance a vow to say three or four prayers in the morning and evening and constantly to remember about his fall with repentance before God. If he is a religious person, then give him a rule of prayer or send him on a pilgrimage to a distant monastery, but first find out the circumstances of his life and do not announce the penance like a prophet, but apply healing with intelligence.

We will probably return to penances, but now it is appropriate to mention that despondency and despair in penitents should be feared no less than stony insensibility. These feelings oppress them after sins that cannot be put right, such as infanticide or abortion, causing someone irremediable harm or misfortune, and sometimes people succumb to despondency simply by reason of their own afflictions — the death of children, seen as a punishment from God for former sins, or other perplexing events. Healing spiritual children of these demonic temptations — despondency and despair — is achieved not so much through explaining the truths of God (such as recalling the saving of the Wise Robber on the cross, Zaccheus, the harlot and so on), as by showing brotherly sympathy and compassion. "If I am sorry for you, then will not your Heavenly Father have pity on you? Know, brother, that despondency is from the devil; that is why we pray during Lent with prostrations to the ground that God will not let us descend to despondency. Bear in mind that despondency and despair always have the poison of pride or self-love hidden them, the seed of a certain grumbling and reproach of Providence, which has let one fall into misfortune or sin. Drive away from yourself such embittered feelings against God or people and admit that you are yourself entirely to blame for having given yourself up to the evil suggestions of the devil or of evil people, and have let yourself slip — that it is not God Who has offended you, but you yourself have offended God, sinned against Him and many times turned away from His all-powerful right hand. Then the heavy stone of embitterment will fall from your heart, and with it despondency will also fall away, and you will raise up prayers of repentance to the Lord with compunction and contrition, and after that joyful thanksgiving."

 

 

9. Self-Justification.

 

The opposite of despair is carelessness and stony insensibility. People experience this more often and, like despair, it is not easily cured. Of course it borders closely on weak faith, although less decisively than the conscious doubts of a philosopher or reasoner, but it is certainly no less stubborn, if not more so. Leo Tolstoy writes in his Confession that he only began to think about questions of conscience and eternity in the fiftieth year of his life, and previously he had not gotten round to this. He lived a "life like a drinking bout," passing from one attraction to another, and never thought deeply about questions of eternity. Thus in confession people admit to committing adultery, to offending their wives and parents, to deception, to total removal of their life from God’s temple, but so lightheartedly that you will clearly see this means nothing to them, and that they are not even thinking of beginning to struggle with these sins. This is what you must tell them: "Although your sins are serious in themselves and would require exclusion from Holy Communion for so many years — yet more terrible is this stupefaction of your con- science, in the power of which you clearly experience no repentant grief over your sins. You must know that Holy Communion can be given to you only after you promise to hate these sins and begin to struggle with them. Otherwise you will not only not be worthy of Holy Communion (which perhaps will not distress you very much in your present state), but also, you will not remain at your present level of sinfulness. You see, none of the world’s evildoers or criminals were born murderers or robbers, but before their first offenses they differed from ordinary sinners only in that they did not take their sins and mistakes to heart at all, did not repent of the offenses they had caused to others, and whenever they were reproached by their elders or comrades they blamed someone else for what had happened, like Adam and Eve after their fall into sin. And so you, while you were innocent, despised adulterers, but after you fell, you began to justify yourself, and then, when you were used to this abomination, you even boasted of it and, going even further, you began to mock those who preserve their chastity. In a similar way the conscience is lulled to sleep by worldly dissipation and corrupt comradeship, and it grows ever deeper and deeper into other sins, desires and passions, and you are soon near to daring calmly to commit criminal offenses."

When he is admonishing such unconcerned people, both during confession and while edifying his flock as a whole, the priest must warn them particularly persistently against the spirit of self-justification, which is one of the principal enemies of our salvation. Some people accepted the preaching of our Saviour and His Apostles, and others rejected it. Within both groups there were great sinners and people of righteous life. What were the spiritual qualities which caused them to accept or reject the Gospel of salvation? It was almost always this: whoever had the spirit of self-justification and considered himself a decent enough person rejected the preaching of repentance, the preaching of the Gospel; and whoever considered himself a guilty sinner before God and men accepted it and was saved, like Zaccheus, like the Wise Robber on the cross.

It is the same with Christians who have come to believe. The difference between those who are being saved and those who are perishing, or are far from salvation, lies not so much in the number of their sins, but in the inclination, or lack of it, to admit that they are guilty and sinful. "You feel bitterly offended by your neighbour, you are convinced, and perhaps correctly, that you are being unjustly deprived of your employment or promotion; that you are being slandered, that your merits are unrecognized. Let us agree that this is so. At present it is not possible to demand that you should be completely insensitive towards all this. But, although you take these offenses to heart, remember even more strongly and lament in your soul over the side of these events in which you yourself sinned through laziness, malice, lying, obstinacy and so on. You will not be justified before God by offenses that others commit against you, but you will have to answer for your own guilt, especially if you do not wish to admit to it with repentance. Let the Lord justify you for your repentance; do not justify yourself before Him, but accuse yourself. Once, someone was talking to St. Tikhon of Zadonsk and could not find any words with which to oppose his arguments about the faith, so he struck the saint in the face. Then St. Tikhon himself fell at his feet and asked forgiveness for not warning him against such a sin as striking one of God’s bishops in the face. Readiness to condemn oneself and not others is a great virtue, which not only exalts people in the eyes of God, but also attracts the hearts of men." Convince your spiritual children that they must fight above all against the spirit of self-justification and condemnation of others, and explain that if anyone comes to confession in such a spirit he will not receive any benefit from the Holy Mystery. The benefit received from this depends on the degree of contrition of heart. Let no one reassure himself that he is honourable or faithful to his wife or even that he has preserved his virginity. Perhaps he is free from serious falls, but what would he be like if he had undergone such temptations as his fallen brothers have, if he had not received such good influences from people and books and such gifts from God, of which others are deprived? "It is possible that in your condition they would have shown incomparably more of their own good will towards spiritual perfection, and flourished in various virtues and spiritual struggles. Behold those who seem to be poorer than you, and behold those who struggle more earnestly than you for the salvation of their souls and even pour forth constant tears of repentance. If even the great Ephraim the Syrian, who was granted visions from God, wept profusely, then how can we sinners be strangers to a spirit of constant repentance and self-reproach?" Admonish all your flock with such words, but especially those who stand before you at holy confession without repentant contrition. It is possible to be saved without many virtues, says St. Simeon the New Theologian, but nobody has been saved who has not attained a spirit of compunction — that is, of compunctionate repentance for one’s sins and joy over the mercy of God.

 

 

10. Spiritual Delusion (Prelest).

 

Weak faith and carelessness are expressions of people’s irreligion, but even a pious person is not protected from spiritual sickness if he does not have a wise guide, either a living person or a spiritual writer. This sickness is called prelest, or spiritual delusion, imagining oneself to be near to God and to the realm of the divine and supernatural. Even zealous ascetics in monasteries are sometimes subject to this delusion, but of course, lay people who are zealous in outward ascetic struggles undergo it much more frequently. Surpassing their acquaintainces in feats of prayer and fasting, they imagine that they are seers of divine visions, or at least of dreams inspired by grace. In all events in their lives they see special, intentional directions from God or their Guardian Angel, and then they start imagining that they are God’s elect, and not infrequently try to foretell the future. The Holy Fathers armed themselves against nothing so fiercely as against this sickness — spiritual delusion.

Prelest endangers a man’s soul if it lurks in him alone; but it is dangerous and imperilling also for the whole of local church life, if a whole society is seized in its grasp, if it makes its appearance anywhere as a spiritual epidemic and the life of a whole parish or diocese is oriented entirely towards it. This is exactly what has happened in the Russian Church, both in Great Russia and in the Ukraine, both among the simple people and in the so-called "enlightened society." This plague, under various names, began to develop in strength throughout the local Russian Church some thirty years ago, and by the time of the last war it had seized almost all parts of the former Russian Empire in its grasp. In St. Petersburg, in Moscow and on the lower reaches of the Volga appeared the Johannites, who declared the late Fr. John of Kronstadt to be a reincarnation of Christ and a certain Matrona Kisileva to be the Mother of God. To replace one Christ, others appeared — Chursikov in Petrograd, Koloskov in Moscow and Samara, and so on. The Ukraine created Stephan Podgorny, a wanderer who later became a monk and claimed to be God. Podolia and Bessarabia declared a semi-literate and drunken Moldavian hieromonk, Innokenty, to be Christ. In Kiev another uneducated monk called Spiridon, who had attained to the rank of archimandrite during the war, started to preach a new faith. In Siberia Johannism took on an especially fanatical character, and, alas, even on Mt. Athos an extremely harmful movement of delusion, called imenobozhnichestvo, has started spreading.

In high society Rasputin gave himself out as Christ, and the teaching of reincarnation, or neobuddhism, with its extremely easy methods of imaginary communication with the supernatural world, can almost be called the ruling trend of thought in contemporary society. The way was prepared for this by the writings of L. Tolstoy and Vladimir Soloviev. A certain female writer, Schmidt, all but imagined the latter a reincarnation of the Saviour. For a long time now the majority of our writers have been decadents, and although they are themselves atheists or pantheists, they also give themselves out, with considerable success, as intermediaries with the Godhead or even with the gods.

The war, and especially the revolution, have significantly cooled the ardour both of these self-deluded people and also of those who were consciously and slyly deluding others. But such a spiritual epidemic goes too deep to be completely destroyed even by the most radical political upheavals. This disease will continue, especially because not one people provides such fertile soil for the activity of self-styled seers and prophets as does the Russian people. The hero of one of Ostrovsky’s plays ("There Is Enough Simplicity to Deal with Every Wise Man") said quite correctly that in Russia anyone can give himself out as a prophet, provided that he is not lazy, nor ashamed to do so. No matter how much people are let down by his predictions, they will not stop believing in his special knowledge, but will explain the failure of the prophecy by their own lack of understanding. But the false prophet or christ will have honour, glory and every possible kind of gift heaped upon him as before. Everyone knows how destructive are the consequences of being carried away by this "Khlystism"; it begins with feats of prayer and fasting and ends with shameless depravity, or fornication.

Of course, a spiritual father cannot struggle with this sin or with Khlystism in general in its entirety. He can only advise individual Christians and warn them against falling over this spiritual precipice, as soon as he notices even the slightest inclination towards visions, predictions and things of this sort. Apart from confession itself, he must explain in sermons what delusion and Khlystism are (my circular letter about this was printed in the periodical "Light of Petchersk" in the summer of 1918). If a priest notices that the person confessing to him a Khlyst or a Johannite or, in general, someone inclined towards delusion, then he should briefly explain to him how the devil deludes Christians and even monks by suggesting the thought that they have been granted visions. Then he constantly blinds their conscience, convincing them of their apparent sanctity and promising them the power of working miracles. (These can be illustrated by referring to the life of "Svyatogorets" about the Holy Mountain Athos, Abba Dorotheus, St. John of the Ladder, or the Synaxarion). He leads such ascetics to the summit of a mountain or roof of a church and shows them a fiery chariot on which they will be taken at once to Heaven. The deluded ascetic then steps on to it and falls headlong into the abyss, and is dashed to death without repentance. If the person confessing tells of visions he has seen, then ask him if the person who appeared had a cross with him or blessed him with the sign of the Cross; if not, the visions were all from the devil; this is explained by the fathers and spiritual writers we have just mentioned. The Apostle Paul also wrote that Satan takes the form of an angel of light (I Cor. 11:14). You must also bear in mind that, when the Khlysti find out about this sign for distinguishing true visions from false ones, then, in their future accounts they will be careful to mention that the person who appeared had a cross with him and even blessed them with the cross. However, if you continue raising objections they will not be able to restrain themselves from anger. At this point immediately explain that, according to the teaching of the Fathers, anger or irritation when telling about a vision is a sure sign that the person who saw it is in delusion and that the visions themselves are false. "Angels and demons appear to the saints, but we sinners can only deceive ourselves and others if we recount our ‘visions’."

In order to open the eyes of a person who has fallen or is falling into delusion, you must show him examples of this fatal sickness taken from the above-mentioned books, and also of its invariable sign — disturbance and even irritability in the face of accusations. Should they be admitted to Communion? If they directly affirm some absurd belief, such as in the divinity of Stephan Podgorny or Matrona Kiseleva, then of course they should not be admitted. But if they offer repentance for all their sins and promise to test their visions or dreams with the sign of the Cross and to conceal nothing from the priest, then they can be admitted.

Twenty years ago, the Russian Holy Synod gave orders for priests to demand that all Khlysts known to them solemnly curse the Khlyst errors, in front of the Cross and Gospels. This was the only means of diagnosing the Khlyst heresy, as its followers are told not to reveal their secrets "either to father or mother or spiritual father." Only before an actual cursing of the Khlyst heresy will a secret Khlyst hesitate, and then the priest will understand with whom he is dealing and, of course, will not give him absolution of sins or Holy Communion unless he condemns the heresy. However, even an admission of this sort can be obtained from a Khlyst, although not in its entirety. He will swear that he does not belong to any Khlyst society and does not share their errors, but not one word of this can be believed until he has anathematized the main points of the Khlyst heresy. These are set forth in the circular published by the Holy Synod and printed in the "Church Bulletin" ("Tserkovniya Vedomosti").

 

11. Sicknesses of the Will and Heart. Anger.

 

Such, then, are the varied difficulties facing a priest which arise from the convictions of his flock: from their unbelief, weak faith, false beliefs and various types of delusion or, on the other hand, from despondency and despair. Most of these ailments have appeared recently, not more than 50 or 60 years ago, and have spread throughout the Russian Empire only in the last 25 to 30 years. These sicknesses are still almost completely unknown to the other local Orthodox Churches which have been under the power of the Turks.

Now it is time to move on to the discussion of sicknesses of the will and heart, that is to say, the sicknesses of Christians within the society of the Church. (Almost all the sicknesses of the soul which have been mentioned thus far place people outside the Church, and such people have, in effect, to be received back into the Church if they offer repentance.)

The ancient Fathers usually expound the teaching about healing the soul according to the eight or nine basic passions. All the holy teachers of asceticism give an almost identical list of the passions. Such a diagnosis of our spiritual infirmities and approach to healing them is incomparably more correct than the enumeration of sins or sinful acts, which is accepted by the Latins. To wage war only with the sins that make their appearance as actual deeds would be just as unsuccessful as cutting down weeds in a garden instead of digging them up at the root and throwing them out. Sins appear as inevitable outgrowths from their roots, the passions of the soul. Spiritual fathers must explain to their flocks in their sermons, and especially in the sermon before confession, that their struggle must be waged against the passion itself, against the sinful disposition, and that limiting repentance to sinful acts is far from sufficient. On exactly the same principles, it is impossible to set one’s mind at ease by the fact that one allows oneself to commit relatively few sinful acts: Christian perfection consists of constant good inclinations and dispositions, and it is essential to cultivate these in oneself. The Ten Commandments of the Old Testament prohibit sinful deeds, but the Beatitudes of Christ concern not deeds, but dispositions. Of these, surely only peacemaking can be called a deed, but even this is only attainable for those faithful who have nourished their souls with heartfelt good will towards people. The endless dispute of the theologians of Europe as to whether a Christian is saved by faith or by good deeds reveals in both camps a common lack of understanding of our salvation. If these theologians do not wish to learn a correct understanding of this from the Saviour, then the Apostle Paul depicts it even more clearly: "The fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance" (Gal. 5:22). It is not the deeds by themselves that have value in the eyes of God, but the constant state of soul which these words describe. Of course, one must force oneself to perform deeds both of piety and of brotherly love, but their value is only relative, as a means of maintaining and increasing the intensity of one’s virtuous and grace-filled state, which will be extinguished without corresponding struggles and inner warfare, like a fire without fuel. Stephan Yavorsky was, therefore, quite correct when he wrote in his Rock of Faith that faith, contrary to the teaching of the Protestants, does not of itself compel anyone to do good deeds, except in certain isolated instances. These instances, I will add myself, will be less and less frequently repeated if a Christian does not carry out the two exercises of spiritual warfare or asceticism, self-opposition and self-compulsion: otherwise he will undergo a "shipwreck of faith," as the Apostle Paul puts it, for only "by works is faith made perfect" (James 2:22). Thus faith is not a "merit," faith by itself does not save, but it is an essential condition for spiritual perfection, through which salvation is attained; and it is in this sense that the Apostle says that without faith it is impossible to please God. Pleasing God consists precisely in these fruits of the spirit, about which St. Paul speaks, and which are cultivated by inner warfare and labours of piety; not by one’s own strength alone, but with the assistance of the grace of God, given in answer to the prayer of a believer.

A spiritual father must interrogate and advise those coming to confession from this point of view, so that they will understand that they sin against God and their salvation not only by allowing themselves sinful actions or repeating them many times, but also by not being concerned to implant Christian virtues in their souls, and not struggling against the passions which are concealed in the soul and drive it towards sinful thoughts, feelings, words and actions.

Now let us approach mere closely the question as to what sort of advice a priest should give to penitents. He must open their eyes to the passions and sinful tendencies arising from them, which will be a constant and unstemmable source of sins until the cause itself is taken away. Thus, for example, a Christian laments to you that she (or he) is constantly quarrelling with the people at home, cannot live in harmony with her husband or other relations and admits that she herself is to blame for this: she constantly "gets cross" whenever her instructions are not fulfilled and whenever she is addressed or otherwise treated with insufficient respect. In this case it must be explained that she (or he) does not "get cross," but is angry because of a sinful tendency towards anger, one of the eight chief passions which lead us away from salvation. Once one has realized how sinful and destructive this passion is (for almost none of the world’s most terrible crimes would occur if people did not give themselves up to anger), the first step in healing it is to admit that one is suffering from this passion, or its inception: to admit that one is spiritually sick and needs to be healed. According to the teaching of the Holy Fathers, the second medicine against this passion, as against every other passion, should be our "righteous anger" against the passion that is afflicting us, in this case, against our anger itself. The Creator placed the faculty of anger in us so that we can direct this feeling against our own sins, against passions and the devil, but certainly not for use against our neighbors or enemies. Jesus the son of Sirach says, "The very action of anger is already a fall." But, of course, these methods of struggle are still insufficient. The passion is weakened by half when this is realized, but it is not killed. It remains to strive gradually after perfect angerlessness. It will be understood that the principal means is to pray about this morning and evening, and also whenever you meet a person with whom you habitually become irritated. Then struggle with the actual appearance of your passion, and if you cannot restrain your tongue from angry and offensive words, then stop the conversation: either go away from the place where it began, or stop talking, or lead the conversation on to another subject. In most cases it will be sufficient for you to do this two or three times for the other person to follow your lead; and the first rays of mutual friendship shining forth will strike the soul with such joy that both will be amazed at themselves, as to why they quarreled and tormented themselves and each other, depriving themselves of the joy of holy friendship. Certainly it is not always possible to remove the spirit of anger and arguing from one’s family or society. It sometimes happens that, at the inspiration of the devil, one of your neighbors becomes even more argumentative when he notices that you have humbled yourself in your heart. Instead of emulating you, he might well be imbued with malicious envy of your meekness, and will become even more daring and increase his malicious words and acts. Then you should know that this cross comes to you from God, and if you cannot go away from such a person or, as it is said in spiritual books, "give place to anger," then at least try to preserve peace and good will toward such a person, as it says in the Psalm: ‘I was peaceful with those who hated peace." Preserve your soul from anger and malicious revenge and give special consideration as to what attitude to take towards your malicious neighbour, praying to God and asking the advice of your superiors. To some people it is not even useful to show a constant and meek submission, especially to a malicious wife or conceited son. One should be punished and the other separated from oneself. God will guide you in this, and if, wishing the best, you make a mistake, you will not be to blame for this before God, provided only that anger did not penetrate into your heart and rule over it.

Angerlessness is a great acquisition: you will obtain a multitude of friends with this gift, both in heaven and on earth. If we thought more about our souls and the value of spiritual gifts, we would understand how much joy the latter obtain for us even on earth in comparison with the material treasures that most people chase after. Thus they forget God and their conscience but, when they have acquired them, all they have is disillusionment.

Angerlessness and the meekness which comes with it is a life-giving light which pours itself out, without any effort on the part of the person bearing it, on those around, and fills them with zeal to emulate it. This very freedom from anger was one of the most important reasons for the spread of Christianity, both in its earliest period and in the lives of the more recent preachers of the faith — Leonty of Rostov, Stephan of Perm and others. This was the meaning of the words of the Saviour, and even earlier, of the Psalmist — "Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth" (Ps. 36). But if you do not manage to acquire freedom from anger so successfully, and this passion, to which you have long been enslaved, again and again overcomes you in the form of angry outbursts against your neighbours, then offer tearful repentance over this, lest anger should turn into hatred, the most repulsive sin in God’s eyes: "He who hates his brother is a murderer," as the Apostle John writes in his first epistle. The most effective medicine against anger and irritability, although it is also the most bitter at the first draught, is to ask forgiveness after a quarrel. It is bitter for human pride but, if it is bitter, hasten even more to make use of it, for it is bitter only for the proud, and if it seems so intolerable to you, then know that you have within you yet another serious disease, pride. Sit down and think over your own soul, and pray that the Lord help you to master yourself and to ask forgiveness and peace from the person you have offended, even if he is more to blame than you.

Is it necessary to speak of the joyful fruits of such a victory over yourself and over the devil? Once your heart has been softened, how easy it will be the second time, even without any struggle to ask forgiveness! This is like the ability to swim: until a person has made himself to float on the water and swim it seems impossible to him; he is terrified and struggles with himself. But when he has swum even once, he will subsequently jump in and swim without any fear. Pay attention also to the opposite side of things: if you do not make peace with your neighbour, your prayers will be in vain and your repentance fruitless, and receiving Communion will be to your judgement. This is why a priest must unfailingly ask all those coming to confession whether they harbor any malice against their neighbors and if they have made peace with all those with whom they have quarreled — or, if unable to see them personally, if they have made peace with them in their hearts. Explain at this point that on Mount Athos spiritual fathers not only do not permit monks who bear malice against their neighbour to serve in church or commune the Holy Mysteries; but also, when they read their rule of prayer, they have to omit from the Lord’s Prayer the words "forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors," so as not to be liars before God. Thus the monk is made to realize that he is no longer a Christian, if he cannot even say the Lord’s Prayer.

 

 

12. Pride and Vainglory.

 

We have already mentioned that anger is often linked with another passion — pride. Now we will go so far as to say that anger does not often appear as an independent or fundamental passion in the human heart. Most often anger expresses the dissatisfaction of another passion, or even of the casual desires that a person may have from time to time. In the latter case, anger is called impatience or obstinacy, which in turn are expressions of a general self-love, lack of brotherly love and lack of desire to attend to oneself and struggle with oneself. The stronger a passion is in a person, the quicker and more fiercely it turns into anger when it is not satisfied. Thus the vainglorious and lovers of money become envious, the lustful become jealous, the gluttonous become over-critical and irritable, and so on. In general, anger is an indication of various sinful passions, and one can find out about these by noticing when a person begins to get angry: if it is during a conversation about fasting and sobriety, then he sins with the passion of overeating and drunkenness; if it is on occasions when he loses money — love of money; if during talks about the saints’ feats of humility — he is proud, and so on. This is why we began our instructions to spiritual fathers with the struggle against anger, as it is an involuntary indicator of other passions. A person’s enslavement to them is expressed first of all as enslavement to anger, which bursts out even with very cunning people who are otherwise able to hide their passions and keep quiet about their bad habits.

Perhaps it will seem to the reader that we have spoken too long about anger and its sinfulness; but here we have also given some indications about struggle with all passions in general, and so perhaps we will be able to express our thoughts about other passions more briefly. However, we must forestall one objection that priests will probably raise: "Is it possible, even in a confession lasting ten minutes, to enter into such depths of the human soul? People talk about their sins, sinful deeds, and am I going to explain to them about passions?" Yes, explain this to them beforehand in sermons, then at confession they will understand what you mean from only a few words. These subjects are very close and comprehensible to the soul of an Orthodox Christian, even of an illiterate one. But it should be understood that in confession, since it is so short, you should say as much as you can manage, and leave the rest for sermons in church (without personal allusions, of course) — and for private conversations with your parishioners. Here it is a great thing if you can direct the spiritual gaze of your parishioner into his soul and its infirmities — its sinful passions, dispositions, and not to deeds alone.

While adducing reasons for the struggle with the passions of anger and malice, we touched on pride and vainglory, which are closely linked with them. However, this enemy of God and our salvation will not be crushed unless the warrior of Christ, having come to his spiritual father with repentance, is given a weapon aimed precisely at this enemy. With our contemporaries, educated and half-educated and, of late, even with the uneducated, the sin of pride does not appear as a fall, a stumbling, but it is their constant state. Consequently they do not consider it to be a sin. But what are "noble self-love," "a feeling of one’s own worth," "honor" — if not this pride which is repugnant to God. People call these feelings "noble pride," "lawful pride," but there is only one sort of pride — demonic. The Elder Makary of the Optina Hermitage explained this to a landlord, who was bewailing to him that his son had married a serf girl, and thus offended the "noble pride" of the whole family. I have written and spoken much against this spiritual blindness which, alas, has even made its way into textbooks of moral theology and adduces an uncomprehending reference to the words of St. Paul, who said that it would be better for him to die than that any man should make his glorying void (1 Cor. 9:15). But anyone who has taken the trouble to read this statement will see that the glory is here understood to be from God, and that in the future life.

Of course, it is not only our contemporaries who suffer from pride: only the saints are free of it, but those of Adam’s descendents who have not crucified their passions bear this burden in themselves and have to struggle with it until they are freed from its weight. But the disaster of our contemporaries is that they do not consider it to be a sin, although it is cursed by God — just as those deeply sunk in a life of dissolution do not consider either lust or adultery to be sins. On the contrary, if a young person is distinguished by a forgiving nature and does not seek revenge on those who offend him, he not infrequently has reproaches and mockery hurled at him even by his own parents, being called a worthless person who does not even defend his own honor. Probably our own contemporaries would treat Christ the Savior with the same contempt, as well as the Apostles and Martyrs who unmurmuringly endured beatings and every kind of humiliation.

A spiritual father must at least try to ensure that the penitent recognizes as sinful every word and act instigated by this feeling. There are two different kinds of pride — vainglory and inner or spiritual pride. The first passion seeks after human praise and fame but the second, a subtler and more dangerous feeling, makes people so full of confidence about their own virtues that they do not even wish to seek human praise, but are satisfied by the pleasure of contemplating their own imagined virtues. Of this type are Byronism as well as Mephistopheles and the demons beloved by European writers.

Vainglory is the more amusing feeling, in that people laugh at it, and so it is easier, if not to overcome it, then at least to understand that it is shameful and start struggling with it. But how? The penitent should be reminded of Christ’s words in the Sermon on the Mount, when He said that the struggles of a vainglorious man are not pleasing to God (Mt., Ch. 6); and also of the condemnation of the Pharisees (in the twenty-third chapter of St. Matthew). This is the way in which thoughtless people who do not notice the sinfulness of their motives should be brought to their senses. But we must also be very careful about something of which, alas, we take no care at all, and this applies not just to spiritual fathers but to all members of the clergy. We must be very careful that we ourselves do not motivate people with vainglory, especially those giving money to the Church. Indeed, we cannot but admit that a good half of the most abundant offerings on which churches, schools, orphanages and hospitals are built, are made at the instigation of vainglory, stirred up in rich people by the clergy, not infrequently even those in bishop’s orders. Vainglory which has been humbled or is struggling with humility in the soul of a Christian, deserves incomparably greater condolence or heartfelt sympathy. Frequently people who are reverent and humble-hearted will confess to you that they are haunted by thoughts of vainglory when making donations, serving the sick, or even when showing a good, loving attitude towards them, and finally, when they sing or read well in church and people praise them for it; when they preach sermons, study diligently at school, and so on, and so on. Often good monks, noticing such thoughts in themselves, ask their elder’s or spiritual father’s permission to stop their useful service on the kliros (i.e. singing and reading) or in the altar; and lay people — to stop their social and philanthropic activities.

This, of course, was one of the principal motives that hermits had in refusing to be made bishops and even fleeing from people when they became famous among them. For this same reason even now several educated archimandrites refuse to become bishops, and monks refuse to be ordained to the priesthood. What, then, should a spiritual father say when a Christian puts forward such ideas? Exactly the same answer as the famous elders of Optina, Makary and Amvrossy, gave to such a question. One should not refuse an obedience which is useful to the Church, in accordance with God’s commandments and to which you are called by your superiors and by the gifts that God has given you. Do a useful job, and as for the thoughts of vainglory which force their way into your heart, reproach yourself and oppose them — but not by abandoning the job. Carry on with the useful work, but not with the sinful thought, even when the work demands one thing and the thought demands the opposite, which will unfailingly happen soon and frequently. Not only the Lord, but also people who observe life intelligently can always see who is genuinely working for the sake of what has to be done and who is working out of vainglory: which teacher is loving towards his pupils, trying to inspire them to labour and struggles, and which is trying to obtain glory for himself or, as they say, "popularity": which writer is writing for the triumph of right and in order to teach people what is good, and which is writing to please the crowd, for his own vainglory and "for filthy luchre’s sake" (Titus 1:11). And so teach people to test their consciences after every special feat and even after every obligatory labour; for example, was the motive of vainglory present during prayer, and to what extent? Then offer repentance for this sin, but do not abandon the work. If he does this, a Christian will soon see that he often has to choose between the demands of his work (and duty) and the demands of vainglory, that he must constantly choose the first and suppress the second. Besides this, as he becomes strengthened in struggling for the good, a Christian is gradually freed from self-love in general and, consequently, from all kinds of vainglory.

What should be said to people who are proud in the strict sense of the word, who think so highly of themselves that they do not even seek praise from people? "What are you proud of: your mind, beauty, noble birth, talents? But surely all this is not from yourself, but from the Creator, and the Creator can take all this away from you, as He has taken away everything from the "great" people in the present revolution. But what is most terrible of all, He can take away even your mind. Remember Nebuchadnezzar’s punishment and humble yourself before God, before the fate of Napoleon and Wilhelm overtakes you. And let every Christian who excels above others in something keep a watch on himself and struggle with every kind of self-exultation, remembering his sins and passions and the humble dispositions of the Holy Apostles and others who pleased God. It is useful to mention an account like this from the Spiritual Meadow (or another patristic book). "I saw," recounts an elder, "in a monastery a brother who was still young, but renowned for his struggles and for his gentleness. Before my eyes he was offended and even insulted, but he calmly kept silent throughout and even the expression of his face did not change in the slightest. ‘Brother, who taught you to be so gentle?’ I asked, moved to compunction.

‘Are they really worth my anger?’ he answered. ‘These are not people, they are just beautiful dogs, and they are not worthy of my being upset by them’. Then my joy (continues the elder) changed into deep grief for this perishing brother, and I went away from him in horror, praying for him and for myself."

It is also necessary to fight against pride by acts which are opposed to it. It is especially important in this case to force oneself, as we have said, to ask forgiveness of those we have offended, and also to bear punishments at school unmurmuringly.

 

 

13. The Seventh Commandment.

It is hardly necessary to mention that a priest has to listen to the confession of sins against chastity more than any other kind of sin, and give corresponding advice as to how to struggle with it. In these times, when unbelief is triumphant and the faith is despised, only people who want to save their souls come to confession. Many, if not the majority of these courageous souls who remain faithful to God and the Church, have humbled themselves before the Lord, do not offend anyone, and try to do good. Such Christians, who of their own accord are going towards God, are usually free from malice, love of money and envy, but they are still pursued by temptations of the flesh, even in monasteries and hermitages. If they are free from the enticements of female beauty and alluring female society, then sinful desires make their appearance in the form of the crudest animal lust, or if the Christian separates himself completely from women, as temptation to secret and unnatural sins. These inclinations will not depart from such a Christian, or even from an ascetic who struggles intensely with himself and hates the sin from the very depths of his soul, ardently desiring to lead a perfectly cha